How do ISFP types behave when they fall in love or have a crush? We have gathered the opinions of various ISFP individuals from the world and translated them for those who are interested in the ISFP type. I hope this will be helpful for anyone who has a crush on or is dating an ISFP!
The comments below are translations of various comments written in different languages. As a result, there may be some awkward or nonsensical sentences.
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“ISFP – I’ve never spoken a word to my crush, but I often fantasize about chatting and laughing with them. I subtly glance at them while pretending to look elsewhere. I act a bit haughty around them for no reason. When I find myself having to talk to them, even for work, I never show any signs of affection. And then I ruminate over the conversation all day, reading into it deeply. If my crush is a friend of my friend, I stick around my friend when they talk to my crush, in my own way showing that I exist… but I never join the conversation.”
“ISFP – 1. I message more than I call. But I think deeply before sending these messages. 2. I show I have a crush by posting about them. That’s what I do. 3. I don’t give off many signs of liking someone. But I guess it was pretty obvious because they knew. 4. I search a lot for things that guys like. There was a time when my entire search history was filled with this.”
“ISFP – The way to attract someone is 1. Mature speech and behavior 2. No gossip or complaints 3. Remembering little things about them 4. Care within indifference 5. Intellectual side (not necessarily being smart, but reading books or being cautious) 6. Being overly courteous or obsequious can be burdensome (in a work setting) 7. Often… buying them delicious food 8. Not refusing their requests (not refusing tasks, but acts of kindness). Things they dislike 1. Show-offs, bragging about oneself or money 2. Being rude to older people 3. Political or social debates 4. Being asked why (burdensome, because these types tend to have simple thoughts).”
“ISFP – We usually don’t do much (out of shyness) but if we do, it’s probably something we’ve learned. And even then, it’s really minor stuff that requires a lot of courage. After doing it, we feel proud, but a little drained. If we are sure that we like them and they like us, we seem to approach them and show signs. But before that, probably not much. The actions can vary, but little things like bringing them snacks, initiating contact with official questions, giving compliments, laughing well during conversations (you must distinguish real laughter from awkward ones), approaching them first to talk, etc. But sometimes, the signs are noticeable, and sometimes they aren’t. Even when we muster up the courage to show signs, when they approach us, we usually freeze and can’t really show any signs. Our facial expressions might give it away. + When they approach, we often can’t think of what to say. We try to remember everything about them and the things that happened between us.”
“ISFP – I keep glancing at them (but when they look at me, I do my best to look elsewhere). The maximum expression of interest I can muster is to smile when our eyes meet. I compliment them a lot. But when I’m in front of them, I can’t manage my expression, so it always looks rigid (I smile better when I’m with other male friends). Before initiating a message, DM, or friend request, I spend at least 10 minutes contemplating (What should I say? What will they think? How should I respond if they reply like this? What if they ignore me?).”
“If an ISFP initiates a conversation, it really means they’re in love.. ISFPs are usually busy with their own tasks and don’t like to initiate conversations, but if they do, it means they genuinely value the other person.”
“I’m not sure if it’s just me, but when I’m in front of someone I like, I pay a lot of attention to how I speak, even my pronunciation.. Even when I text, I check to see if I’m using correct grammar and spacing, which often results in delayed responses. And my text messages come across as a bit stiff.. This could be just my personality, but I sometimes send casual messages like ‘Yeah’ or ‘What are you doing?’ to my friends when I’m in a good mood, but I’ve never done that to someone I like.. I’ve never had a boyfriend, so I’m not sure if I act like this towards a boyfriend, but I think I would.. (I’m an ISFP)”
“ISFP (or maybe E..?) in progress… – I value personality over looks. If someone consistently shows their good side, I fall for them deeply >< – I pretend not to care, but if I think they have feelings for me too, I make an aggressive dash!! – I even fantasize about dating them, which makes my emotions fluctuate… Of course, I don’t have the courage to confess – I automatically smile when I see them hehehe – I get easily thrilled over small things!! If they make my heart flutter even a little, it’s a constant loop of them in my heart.”
“I’m an ISFP, and I’m not sure if it’s just me, but I subtly show signs of interest and affection. I hope that the other person notices. Life only happens once, we’ll both eventually die, so even if I get rejected, it’ll become a memory one day. I impulsively ask them out or initiate a conversation. If they respond, I get so happy and just say anything to keep the conversation going. There are times when I regret it later, but as time passes, I think to myself that I was quite brave.”
“Characteristics of an ISFP… – They value first impressions and keep them for a long time – If they look at someone and smile, they usually like that person – They don’t initiate contact often (if they do initiate or ask a lot of questions, they likely have feelings) – They get lonely easily, so they like frequent contact – They get excited when someone calls them by their name without honorifics – They pretend not to care or show interest – They have a strong sense of pride and are stubborn, so they can’t contact their ex first (if an ISFP texts their ex asking ‘how are you..?’ it means they really miss them) – They change their profile to a song that matches their situation with them (if it’s a pop song, they give meaning to the lyrics…) – They give up on their crush easily, so it doesn’t last long… but their regret lasts longer….. ‘I should have done something’ – For ISFPs, stalking their crush’s social media is a must – They get quite hurt if they receive a short reply – They run away when someone approaches them (this is why many ISFPs are avoidant…) – They often share food.”
“ISFP crush traits (female) – They hesitate to initiate a conversation – They want to talk but can’t initiate – They sneak glances – They like when their crush texts first – They get jealous when their crush is with another girl – They want to look good – They’re usually talkative, but act cold in front of their crush – They imagine everything from getting married to having a baby – They think about physical contact all day.”
“ISFP • Pretends not to like them • Deliberately goes around them and sneaks glances but can’t talk • Repeats liking them and giving up on their own • Likes them alone without them knowing.”
“ISFP- I can fully show my charm to people I’m not interested in, but when it comes to the person I like, I can hardly make eye contact and pretend to be indifferent. I end up showing off around them and checking their reactions superficially.”
“☆☆☆☆☆ISFP☆☆☆☆☆ – I fall in love quickly and intensely, but once I fall for someone, I really like them for a long time – I change my personal music (like on my social media) to songs related to my feelings for that person (this might just be me) – I stare at them a lot. But I avoid eye contact when it actually happens. – At first, I can’t approach them, but after I muster up the courage and do it, I regret not doing it sooner – Often, I act cold towards the person I like without realizing it, making it hard for them to notice my feelings – If something good happens, I reminisce about it before going to sleep, feeling happy, and sometimes write short diary entries.”
“ISFP ‘I need to be certain that the other person is interested in me before I take action’ seems to be the most characteristic trait.”
“ISFP (Purely subjective) 1. I try to match the other person’s likes, even if it’s something I don’t like 2. I play out many simulations after setting a date 3. If I take a while to reply to messages, it’s not because I’m ignoring you, but because I’m seriously considering my response 4. Even if they don’t respond quickly, I can’t say anything and just suffer in silence 5. Then I start to imagine things if I see them with someone else 6. I get mentally confused when our communication patterns start to align 7. I can’t speak when I meet the person I like 8. If I initiate conversation, that’s a huge sign that I like them 9. I really love it when they react to my words, but I don’t show it 10. I propose plans first.”
“ISFP – I really don’t express well and don’t show much. When that person comes around, I freeze and can’t do anything and react awkwardly. Then I regret not doing this or that at home. I take a sneak peek at them and when I try to message first, there are times when I can’t send it after considering it a million times. I can’t show affectionate behavior…”
“When I start to like someone as an ISFP – I keep looking at them – I like learning more about them – I start taking care of myself – I often imagine dating them – Though I really like it when they talk to me, I respond indifferently – Everything they do makes me laugh – I keep an eye on their surroundings – I get excited when listening to songs about love – I attribute meanings to things often – If they disappear, I look for them – If they show even a little interest or do something that excites me, I think about it all day – I pretend not to care – If they approach me, I step back – I can’t text or anything like that.”
“ISFP behaviors towards a crush – I want to keep in touch but can’t because of considering the other person’s feelings >> So I always regret and feel sad – I really like it when they text first – I have a stronger pride than you think, so I can’t confess even if I want to – I really try to consider others >> In the process of taking care of others, I often neglect myself and suffer alone – I often talk about my worries >> I won’t talk unless I trust them a little, so if I talk, it means I really like them – I often send long texts >> I have a lot to say and it becomes ambiguous if it’s short, so I write long texts to move them – I never leave a message unread, I always reply.”
“ISFP – Even though I really want to contact them a lot, I can’t do it as much as before because it’s awkward. This is really because I like them. I feel like everything doesn’t go well when I like someone. I am an ISFP.”
“ISFP behaviors towards the person they like – I want to keep in touch constantly but can’t because I think about them >> So I always regret and feel sad – I’m overjoyed when they contact me first – I have a surprisingly strong pride so I want to confess but can’t – I try to consider others a lot >> I can’t take care of myself because I’m busy taking care of others so I often suffer alone – I often talk about my worries >> If I talk even a little, it means I really trust them – I often send long texts >> I have a lot to say so I write long texts to make them feel touched – I never ignore a message, I always reply.”
“When it feels like it’s mutual as an ISFP, I try to approach them. But I try not to show it… And if they baby me, I feel like I’m really accelerating. I have a dark past because of this… I stutter when I express myself and it’s hard to talk as usual when they talk to me. Of course, this is all from my perspective.”
“I like ISFP, and last time an ISFP DM’d me first.. what does that mean? They took the initiative, what could that mean?”
“When you talk to an ISFP, they pretend to be annoyed but subtly approach you. They glance at you when you are not looking and pretend to dislike you. They prepare themselves before meeting you, laugh in front of you, and avoid eye contact.”
“From my perspective, ISFPs usually find it bothersome to communicate but they are always waiting for that person’s call. All their attention is there. But in the meantime, they ignore everyone else’s messages. And if ISFPs call you for a long time? And even for several days in a row? Even if it’s not true love, they definitely have a crush.”
“ISFP (from my perspective) – Don’t show it – Can’t look them in the eye, just glancing at their back – Over shares on chat – Subtly wants to show they like them.”
“Can any ISFPs tell me how an ESTP woman can attract an ISFP man? Would he dislike it if I was a bit aggressive…”
“ISFP – We used to be close friends, but the moment I realize I like him, my eyes follow him and I get nervous when he’s in front of me – It takes a lot of time and effort to send a single message – If they reply with a short answer, I feel sad all day, and if there’s a hint that they want to continue the conversation, I feel elated that day – I get excited by interpreting the meaning behind his actions – I get easily excited and fall easily for small things – Even though I fall quickly due to small things, once I truly like someone, my feelings don’t easily change – I take care of the person I like more than myself and bear the hardship alone – I don’t think I show my feelings, but my eyes always follow that person – If I contact first, it means I really like that person – Even if it’s obvious that I like them, I rarely confess first – I try to remember everything the person I like says, and take care of them – I lack confidence in making them like me, so I try to match their ideal type.”
“ISFPs don’t write much about this, so when I read what other ISFPs wrote, I think ‘Oh! That’s right, I’m the same’ and I enjoy my own crush.”
“ISFPs can’t start a conversation first, they wish the other person would (but if they really, really like them, they will) They don’t show their feelings openly (so the other person often misunderstands until they are certain) They become awkward in front of someone they like (pretending not to care) They don’t say what they want to say, only thinking about it in their heart (you wouldn’t know how many times they’ve imagined and thought about it) Even if the other person excites them, their reaction breaks down (it’s embarrassing and they like it too much, but they regret it when they come home) They are very careful about every word and action (in the end, they can’t do most things) They think the other person has shown signs, but they are scared and uncertain (they have high standards for certainty—> might be subjective) They have a lot of unrequited love experiences (this could also be subjective).”
“If love is sincere… It’s not limited to MBTI, but as an ISFP myself, I overcame my reluctance to the person I loved like my life … I overcame my reluctance to text first/buy the gift they said they liked/go out whenever they asked.”
“When ISFPs really have someone they like, they fall deeply. Showing so many signs means they love that person that much.”
“I’m sure everyone is looking up the MBTI of the person they like, but there’s an ISFP here looking for someone of the same type👋👋✌”
“As an ISFP who is often mistaken for an E type, I keep asserting my opinion and confirming my existence.. even if it’s by chance, if I pass by, I laugh out loud and with my whole body, I say, ‘I’m here, aren’t you interested?? ^^7 (scratching) haha. I imagine confessing or receiving a confession and run a simulation. But if I clearly feel that they are looking at someone else, not me, then I think, ‘That’s enough, I don’t need it either’. I pretend to organize my feelings, but I can’t let go and keep spinning around.”
“ISFPs never show their feelings. To the point where my friends might think that I hate the person. Because if they found out that I liked them, I feel like they would feel burdened… I always end up just letting my crush fade away without confessing my feelings.”
“ISFPs pretend not to be interested in the person they like. They assign meaning to trivial actions of the person and fantasize about what it would be like to date them. Even when they know there’s no hope, they find it hard to let go.”
“As an ISFP, I 1. frequently look at messages that made me feel good from the person 2. feel jealousy 3. want to keep in touch often but refrain from doing so to not seem clingy 4. want to be close to the person 5. want to see the person every day. It’s hard to tell…”
“From an ISFP’s perspective – When my crush approaches, I get flustered and just laugh – I can’t give them the snack that I like in front of them – I tend to hang around their vicinity – I want to get in touch with them somehow – If I really like them, I contact them frequently – I get jealous easily – If there’s another woman around, I become conscious – I like someone for a long time once I fall for them – I plan to send a message but often can’t send it – I feel upset when someone else confesses their feelings before I do – I take a screenshot of this and upload it on my story – I realized this is my story – I try to give up on contacting my crush suddenly – I suddenly dislike them – I start liking them again – I have thought about what it would be like to date them – If an ISFP likes someone, they really like them, so please treat them well.”
“ISFP – I often go near the person I like – If they talk to me first, I initially get flustered – I laugh a lot when they joke – Once we get closer, I joke a lot – Before I go to sleep, I prepare myself for how they might treat me – I can’t make eye contact well.”
“As an ISFP, when I truly fall for someone, it’s helpless. I try not to show it, but some of it seeps through. I don’t make a move until I’m sure of my feelings. Once I’m sure, I express a lot. If the person continues to be oblivious, I might mope at home. If it seems hopeless, I give up. But if I see them again, I forget about giving up and only look at them. Also, this might just be me, but once I fall for someone, I don’t easily get tired. But if they truly exhaust me, I tend to give up, drawing a line.”
“I’m an ISFP, and honestly, I rarely send a first text because I worry about what if they don’t respond… But if I truly like someone, none of that scares me… I react enthusiastically… When I’m with my friends, I remember everything they say, but if someone doesn’t remember something about me, I feel disappointed but I don’t show it… I’m an ISFP, but not all of this may apply, this is just me..”
“ISFP – I always linger around them – I share my food with them – I remember all the small things about them – I attach a lot of meaning to their small words and actions – When someone else talks about them, I’m on cloud nine – I’m very aware of others’ perceptions because I worry they might notice my feelings – I struggle a lot with sending the first message and usually end up not doing it – I do a lot of simulations before greeting them and do it with lots of stuttering – I keep sneaking glances at them (but avoid their eyes when they look at me) – I keep mulling over things at home – I hope they approach me first.”
“ISFP never shows their feelings openly, but once I start to like someone, I like them for a very long time. I hate the idea of my feelings being revealed, but I wish they would understand. I get extremely jealous but never show it. When they’re having a hard time, I want to be a big source of support for them. However, I often have trouble assuring myself that I actually have feelings for that person. I want to express my feelings but really don’t know how.”
“As an ISFP, I’m writing this comment after much contemplation. This might not apply to everyone, but this is my story – I remember every little thing about the person I like – Normally, I don’t like replying quickly to many messages, but if I like someone, I even struggle to send the first message and wait anxiously for their reply – There are times when I don’t read their reply because I don’t know what to say to keep the conversation going – I like people who make me feel comfortable (because I get stressed in awkward and burdensome situations) – I like people who are mature in their thoughts – I show a lot of consideration for others and I like it when others also show consideration for me – I like it when they focus on my stories and react well, but overly enthusiastic reactions make me uncomfortable – I can’t make eye contact with them and I hide my emotions – I feel burdened by flirting – I’m worried they might feel burdened and hate me if they know I like them, so I try not to show it – I’m really bad at approaching someone first. I’m quite passive, so if they approach me slowly, I gradually open my heart.”
“ISFP (my personal thought) Because ISFPs try to remember every small detail, they try harder to remember people they like or care about. They also try to accommodate that person and if that person is feeling down, they either leave them alone or comfort them. Oh, and they doubt whether they actually like someone, so they think a lot, observe them for a while, and then let go.”
“I’m an ISFP and I initiated the conversation. As soon as I approached him, he said my drawing was pretty, as if he had been waiting for me. They say ISFPs stutter in front of their crushes, do you think he gathered his courage? I’m so worried.”
“As an ISFP, I only talk to the person I’m interested in like we’re just friends when we meet. If they start seeing someone else, I can give up easily. I prefer dating where I can laugh and be happy all the time rather than physical intimacy. I prefer someone who can scold me firmly when I need to be scolded.”
“ISFPs’ voice becomes louder and they tend to lean towards the person they like without realizing it. But as soon as we make eye contact, they avoid it and their face stiffens. When someone tries to tease about them, they overreact saying ‘Ah, I hate it’. So silly.”
“ISFP – I keep lingering around – I share food – I remember all the little things – I over-interpret even the smallest words or actions – I get extremely happy when someone else talks about my crush – I am overly conscious about whether others notice my feelings – I have a hard time initiating a conversation, I think about it a lot but end up not doing it – I practice greetings a lot and get nervous – I keep peeking and looking at my crush (but avoid eye contact when my crush looks at me) – I keep mulling over it even when I get home – I hope my crush approaches me first.”
“As an ISFP, I never show that I like someone but once I do, I like them for a very long time. I don’t want my feelings to be noticed, but I hope the person realizes it. I get extremely jealous, but I don’t show it. When the person I like is having a hard time, I really want to be there for them. However, I often have trouble confirming whether I really have feelings for them. I want to express my feelings, but I don’t know how to do it, which makes me upset.”
“As an ISFP, I’m too lazy to even comment but let me share my story – I remember all the little things about the person I like – I usually don’t like replying to frequent messages immediately, but when I like someone, I even consider sending the first message and eagerly wait for a reply – I want to carry on the conversation when a reply comes, but sometimes I don’t read the message because I don’t know what to say – I like people who make me feel comfortable (because I usually feel burdened and awkward in social situations) – I like mature thinkers – I take care of the other person a lot, so I like it when they also take care of me – I like it when they pay attention to my stories and react well, but overly enthusiastic reactions make me feel uncomfortable – I can’t look into their eyes when I like them and I hide my feelings – I feel burdened about flirting – I try not to show my feelings because I worry that they might feel burdened and dislike me if they find out that I like them – I can’t approach them first, I’m passive, so if they approach me slowly, I gradually open up my heart.”
“ISFP (my personal opinion) – As ISFPs tend to try to remember every single detail, they try even harder to remember things about people they like or care about. Also, they try to match their behavior to that person’s and if the person feels down, they either leave them alone or try to comfort them. Oh right, they question a lot whether they really like the person or not, keep observing and thinking about them for a while, and often let it go.”
“I’m an ISFP and I initiated a conversation saying ‘Your drawing is nice!’ right after I saw him, even though they say ISFPs get nervous in front of the person they like. I’m worried if I took the courage to do that.”
“As a single ISFP: I’m scared to initiate a conversation with someone I like, so I just talk to them like a friend when we meet. If they start dating someone else, I can let go cleanly. I prefer dates that are always full of laughter and happiness rather than physical affection. I prefer someone who can scold me sternly when I need it.”
“ISFP – I like the person, but I become colder to them. I can’t look into their eyes and I’m too shy to approach them. Even if I have a crush, I absolutely cannot express it or initiate contact. I just hope that the person will like me.”
“I don’t know if it’s just me as an ISFP, but I try hard not to show that I like someone. If I don’t say anything to my friends, they won’t know. I keep looking at the person I like. I get nervous in front of the person I like. I can’t confess my feelings at all. I attach meaning to every little action. By the way, when I look for comments on ISFPs, there aren’t many. ISFPs must only read comments without leaving any!”
“As an ISFP, I absolutely can’t make the first move, so it usually ends up as unrequited love unless the person I like comes to me first.”
“As an ISFP, if someone shows interest in me first, I also develop an interest. I don’t show that I like them unless I’m certain it’s mutual. If I’m convinced it’s mutual, then I flirt a lot. I don’t understand the concept of texting first, I’m okay if they text me first, if not then not. But I do text first when it’s someone I like. If they don’t text me first, I wonder if I did something wrong? Did I make a mistake? Has the affection cooled down? I have these thoughts until I get a response, then I sigh with relief.”
“If someone I like asks me, an ISFP, to walk around the track field together, I wonder how I would react?”
“As an ISFP, I am so shy and introverted that I don’t express my feelings well. However, I am smitten by the smallest things the person says. I speak less and become more introverted around them.”
“As an ISFP, when talking one on one, I can’t look at them in the eyes. I lend anything if they seem to need it, like a pen. Along the same line, I give them lots of food and take care of them a lot. I sometimes text first (if an ISFP texts you first…? That means they really like and cherish you..) I’m a reaction machine. When I get home, I replay our conversation and regret not saying something differently. There’s never a day when my blanket is still in place…”
“As an ISFP, I try not to show that I like someone. I overreact because I’m overly conscious of the other person. I secretly enjoy unrequited love. I feel really proud when I can help them when they need it. If they don’t approach or confess to me first, there’s almost no chance of anything happening.”
“As an ISFP, when I have a crush on someone, I try my best not to show it. I remember everything the person did and said that day. Most of the time, I just end up nursing my heartache alone until I give up.”
“As an ISFP, I may appear more curt than usual but that’s because I’m trying to hide my feelings. I don’t play around much with someone I like. I remember the snacks or items that my crush or someone I really care for likes, and give them later. I rarely text first, but if I do, I type and delete my message several times.”
“As an ISFP, I hate being bothered and when I like someone, I text them a lot. But I never text first. Once I start having feelings, I quickly give up.. There’s a high chance of becoming real friends rather than being in an ambiguous relationship. I try to hide my feelings out of shyness, even resorting to teasing and avoiding appearing interested in them. Sometimes, it hurts so much that I curl up alone in my room, but when that person texts me or calls me to hang out, I cheer up and go out.”
“ISFPs, including me, really can’t start a conversation in real life and only send lots of DMs,,,haha. I can converse well on the phone (although I’m shaking while doing so) but in real life, I can’t even make eye contact and if I accidentally make eye contact, I replay that moment all day long and become lost in happy imaginations,,,😳!! I’m scared to express my feelings because I might get hurt if my crush doesn’t like me back,, so I end up silently nursing a crush and then just give up,,,🥺”
“I’m an ISFP and I might be the only one who does this, but my eyes keep going to that person and I daydream a lot. Even if I do something that makes my heart flutter, I get nervous. I want to see that person so much that I suffer. I listen to a lot of love songs (I have a soft spot for them). I laugh every time that person does something.”
“Subjective characteristics of ISFPs: 1. ISFPs are generally good listeners, but when it comes to the person I’m interested in, it’s different (my reactions and the way I listen when paying attention). 2. I don’t usually start conversations because it’s bothersome, but I initiate conversations with the person I’m interested in (starting a conversation means I like them). 3. I don’t usually ask about others because I’m not interested, but I ask a lot about the person I’m interested in. 4. I don’t like making phone calls because I’m not good at speaking, but I want to make calls with the person I’m interested in. 5. I want to give and take care of food. 6. I look at the person I’m interested in a lot but pretend not to see or feel embarrassed when our eyes meet. 7. If the person I’m interested in seems to like me, I become more proactive. 8. I’m a homebody and don’t like going out or initiating appointments, but if I’m interested in someone, I’ll make time to see them no matter what. 9. I give a lot of compliments. 10. I laugh a lot. 11. I’m a thrifty person, but I don’t hesitate to spend money on the person I’m interested in. 12. I talk more and try to keep the conversation going once we get closer. 13. I remember the small details about the person I’m interested in. 14. I respond quickly. 15. I like to play pranks. 16. I think about them all day. 17. I get lost in imagining being in a relationship with them. 18. I give meaning to the smallest things. 19. I may appear standoffish, not because I want to be, but because I don’t know what to say and end up appearing unapproachable. I regret it later. 20. I repeatedly think about the fun times we had before bed and kick my blankets. 21. I fall in love quickly, but I’m not clingy. 22. I’m like a sunflower, always facing the person I like. 23. I think everything the person does is cute and I fall deeply in love. 24. I look up the person’s MBTI, likes and dislikes. 25. I check the person’s social media and KakaoTalk profiles. 26. Love is the top priority for ISFPs. If an ISFP starts a conversation and makes time to see you, it means they are very interested in you.”
“Am I not an ISFP… Then these are just my personal characteristics when I have a crush. • I prefer telling my friends about my crush and getting advice from them. • I daydream a lot by myself. • I try to approach the person I like first (but nothing too much, maybe just a DM?). • I look up everything related to having a crush (like compatibility by MBTI).”
“Actions ISFPs take when they have a crush – They keep looking at the person – But they avoid them as much as possible when they are close – They look at them from a distance – They take care of themselves more diligently – They daydream – They enjoy having a crush itself – They act as if they don’t like the person – They don’t contact the person (because they don’t have the courage to) – If their crush jokes around with someone of the opposite sex? Their eyes are always on that person – They can’t start a conversation first – They can’t become friends first – They act as if they don’t like the person – They feel happy and sad over small things. Things not to do if you like an ISFP – Don’t play push and pull. If you do, an ISFP will wonder if they are disliked, if the love has cooled, or if they are annoying. They will think of all kinds of things – Don’t stop contacting them (for the same reason as above) – Just keep moving forward (but don’t make it too burdensome, keep getting closer naturally without playing push and pull) – They hate rude and impolite behaviors – Don’t be too burdensome (because then all their feelings will disappear) – If you are flirting with an ISFP? Contact them frequently.”